My Fathers Grandson…

August 6, 2012

photography by shane deruise

Originally Published on: Oct 15, 2010 @ 10:10

I have laid awake many nights this month, thinking away. My work has become a burden to me. Is it good enough? Is my vision right? Do I have the look that is marketable? All of these questions for a craft that I have spent 10 years perfecting.

I use to never question myself, I shot what I want when I wanted, and it sold, or at the very least, struck interest in my meager internet following. Now I’m not sure what I should be doing.

If erotic won’t sell, and commercial won’t sell, and every other rip-off-so-called photographer in the area can’t have an original thought without visiting my site or blog (and I know you do), then what really is the point?

I think back to all of this, because I have a son.

When I say it out loud it almost feels like it’s not true. All the while he is marinating in my wife’s belly, what do I have to offer him? What legacy am I handing down? Can I even be a good father?

I worry I have some inherent trait that would force he and I away from each other. I also worry that despite my best efforts, all the care I can give to him isn’t good enough. What am I handing him? A father that works for himself and barely gets by? A father that helps out others and gets taken advantage of in the process? A father that has worked for years to become something, even a marginal something… and despite a great talent, the lack of assets has managed to make him fall short?

My heart is broken because of it.

My father was always busy trying to work for us, and then, later… he became injured and distant. Only now, 20 years and 200 miles after the fact, are we able to communicate like people. I’m just not sure I understand how to be a dad.

Then I think of the love that my wife and I can give him, and the things I learned from my grandmother, mother, and father. How to scramble and egg, or build a fort, or shoot your cousin with a bow-and-arrow made by hand from some bamboo in the neighbors yard. It makes me feel like I have a chance to show him a world that most kids don’t get to experience.

Then I think, despite what his father may be now, there is no better father for him.

Au revoir…

February 15, 2012

shane deruise

photography by shane deruise, raleigh, nc
Originally published on: Nov 11, 2009 @ 12:51

Shane Deruise | Portrait of a Storm

May 13, 2011

photography by shane deruise, raleigh, nc

Here is a small documentary I shot on the tornados that hit Raleigh, NC.

What Seems, a Thousand Times Before…

May 9, 2011

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photography by shane deruise, raleigh, nc

another shot from my upcoming book on the NC State Fair…

you can check out my work from the state fair here: NC State Fair by Shane Deruise

Western town air…

August 9, 2010

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photography by shane deruise

i always get good shots downtown… wedding and honeymoon photos still in the works… hopefully soon…

and as a bonus for being patient… here is some video of our babies 16 week checkup…

chase the sun…

July 14, 2010

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photography by shane deruise

one of my favorite images from the governors ball… old people make me warm anyway… and look, they are still holding hands!

Walking among the vegetables…

July 3, 2010

photography by shane deruise, raleigh, nc

shot some stock at the farmers market, thanks to Jeremiah for the hot tip…

off to new bern tomorrow to shoot portraits of my grandfather…